A mental health therapist questions Abby’s views on open relationships, urging for more compassion and understanding in her advice.
Arizona: A mental health therapist recently shared their thoughts on Abby’s advice column. They pointed out that Abby seems to have a negative bias against open relationships. The therapist believes Abby’s judgment might not be the best for those in consensual non-monogamous situations.
While the therapist prefers monogamous relationships, they acknowledge that life can be complex. They encouraged Abby to reflect on her views and be more open-minded about different lifestyles.
Abby responded, admitting her bias but clarifying that it comes from hearing about the struggles of those in open relationships. She mentioned that many people feel pressured in these arrangements, which has shaped her perspective.
In another letter, a reader from California expressed frustration about living in a rental situation with family. They went on vacation, expecting renovations to be completed, but four months later, nothing was done. The brother-in-law reduced their rent but now wants to raise it again, which the reader finds unfair.
Abby advised the reader to only agree to the rent increase once the promised renovations are completed, emphasizing the importance of reliability in such arrangements.
